Ever had to battle with the crowd of noises in your head all
at once? All these voices seem to get louder the closer you get to graduation;
as you are about to face the big bad world of bills, rents and student loan
repayments, (well the idea of repayments anyway).
This was the way I
felt when I was in my final year and at this point I had received more
rejection letters than I would like to think (my nostalgia only gets me up to
rejection letter 50), and they kept coming with each click of the submit
button. As if the prospects of revising for upcoming exams weren’t bad enough,
I also had to submit an endless list of coursework and on-top of that put
together a mind-blowing presentation on Financial Management.
The icing on the cake is that you are in the same graduate
boxing ring with hundreds of other graduates and post-graduates applying for
the same job/position, trying to meet deadlines and catching those early
applications and at the same time proving you are worth taking the risk on. All
of the pressures combined makes for a battle ground of thoughts, choices and
many ‘I don’t cares’.
It was at this point I
decided to throw the net wide open and change my preferred career choice and, needless
to say, it was a long way different from just ‘Accounting, Finance and Banking.
I expanded my career net to Media, Advertising, Fashion Buyer and Journalism.
At this point, proving
that I could do any of this would boost my ego and made me feel good. I needed
a job after graduating and it didn’t matter where or what sector/industry. That
was my only objective. However this became a set-back to me getting any job as
there was a real lack of focus which prevented me from being successful in any
application (harder when desperation sets in).
My point of
desperation: calling every other day to ask – ‘Your mail said you would get
back to me on Monday, it is now Wednesday’. ‘I called on Wednesday, you told me
to call back in the next few days, I wanted to know how far my application has
gone’ (it was Friday). Desperation does not look good on a graduate.
It took a mentor, refined
focus and learning my lesson in order to realise where I was going wrong, and
what needed to change.
A couple of weeks into
second semester, I was lucky to get a mentor via my careers office. He asked me
tough questions about what I really wanted to do. After telling him my above
career net he said my true passion came out most when I talked about ‘Finance and
Banking’. I gave him the application letter and CV I sent out to my careers
advisors and when I revealed the phone calls I made, I realised how crazy I
truly was.
My mentor was able to
give me a mock interview, look through my CV. He kindly told me to rephrase but
strongly advises me to remove – in my hobbies section; “I like to go for walks
at night in the city” and my love of “ice-cream”. Also looked through my cover
letter and showed me how a simple change of words can make a big difference.
Not everyone has a mentor at easy reach, but careers
advisors can help you with refining your focus. They can steer you in the right
direction and also help with checking your CV or cover letter. You can never have
them checked too many times.
Whilst refining my
focus I also considered the option of a Gap Year and the pros and cons of
taking one.
Pros – a great
experience and I have always wanted to travel & looks great on my CV.
Cons – needs
money!
Amid the pressure leave your options open to new
possibilities you haven’t considered. Don’t worry too much; cosmos and fate are
not against you! Self-pressure and worry can cloud your thoughts and focus. A
clearer mind breeds refinement and focus.
Before I completed my
final exams, I got an internship, and before the end of that I received a
Chinese Government Scholarship to learn Mandarin.
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