I’m sure prospective third year students reading this either
in the manic stress of revision or
ignorant bliss of summer holidays will agree that the looming
inevitability of third year is something that brings on thoughts of immense
pressure, incessant hours of work and a load of grey hairs and eye bags.
And on top of the prescribed stresses that our degree
brings, the dreaded idea of work experience and internships just adds to the
worry of what we should be doing or achieving by a certain time in our
‘university career’. The main thing to be remembering is that measuring your
accomplishments against others is the worst thing to do, and unlike school
where competition is normal and comparison is how you determine how much effort
you put into homework or modular test, life in university has to be all about
yourself—which is most definitely scary if you do not have a CLUE what you want
to do. At all.
As naff and spiritual as this may sound, this panic has to
be refuted so that you can clarify what it is you want to do, and have to do in
the last few months of your degree. So in order to do this the most important thing
to do is clear your mind and basically, calm yourself from any stress that’s
looming.
Taking one step at a time in planning is crucial to
de-stressing. Thinking about your dissertation topic in the midst of revising
for second year exams is not the healthiest thing to do, and obviously will
bring on the anticipation of internship deadlines, dissertation research, and
you’ll even start stressing over organizing your summer, which is supposed to
be fun!
Another thing that is important to do is really take into
account the length of a year: you have plenty of time to either get your act
together in terms of grades if that’s what’s worrying you, you have months of
musing over what to write 7,000 words on before summer and what exactly you
want to do with your life. It’s comforting to know that some graduates leave
university trying to explore what their ‘calling’ is: and in this climate you
have nothing to lose in exploring what you want to do before leaping into a
job.
Remembering that you have a lot of time before the end of
your degree is a relief when everything feels as if it’s on top of you, and the
best thing to make use of too is your course or house mates during this time.
You have more in common than the types of nights out you like and how you all
love a lie in; its this confusion and frustration of not knowing what to do
that unites us all as students, and is something that’s worth discussing and
talking through with people going through the same thing.
All in all, calming your mind and de-stressing is the
easiest way to clarify what you want to do, or at least what you don’t, and the best way to go into your
final year where you want to be pro-active and efficient. But by logically
thinking about how much time you have, your options, and the support networks
of university mates, your family and career support, you will be able to
offload and zen your mind of any anticipations and stress before your final
year—where everything falls into place.
And finally a tip from us, TARGETjobs: If you really want to make your final year count make the most of your resources near you, such as your career services.
Hope you find this post useful.
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